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Many people repel long-distance love relationships for several reasons, one of which emanates from the popular cliché: ‘out of sight is out of mind’. The fears of uncertainties and concerns about the low likelihood of success long-distance relationships are further amplified by tales of heartbreaks or unpleasant experiences shared by couples in long-distance relationships. Although it is advisable that couples guide against long-distance separation in their relationship, the demands of life sometimes present situations where temporal geographical separations become inevitable for couples. Hence, there is a need to help couples overcome setbacks and other challenges associated with long distance, and equip them with pragmatic principles and strategies to grow in love and intimacy while going through such phases. Having personally encountered the highs and lows of long-distance relationship, our goal is to help other long-distance relationship couples to ‘stay in mind while they are temporarily out of sight’. This book is directed at helping couples in long-distance relationships to successfully navigate the hurdles and challenges peculiar to the journey.Many people think that love is all that matters. We thought so too, but realized along the path that although love is important, love is helpless when it lacks the requisite knowledge. Love without knowledge is helpless.Just like a plant obtains its nourishment for survival and sustenance, relationships too need nourishment. Many relationships, which started with promising hopes and great energy, started declining and withering when long-distance sets in. This is a common case of many great friendships that started off on campus, but gradually collapsed after graduation. Our long-distance relationship (LDR) experience has taught us that a good relationship, either long-distance or short, needs some essential elements, of which understanding is also non-negotiable. I usually tease my wife that our courtship qualifies for a certificate degree in Long-Distance Relationship (LDR). First, it was a four-year long courtship (not the longest out there though), and was long-distance for the most part. As you would discover in the course of this book, about 90% of our courtship period was long-distance. My first proposal to Joy was done over a phone call and a follow-up love letter (email actually), and our traditional wedding was done on Skype because we were on different continents when the time was ripe for the wedding. Despite the ups and downs and the emotional hysteresis in our long-distance relationship, we sailed successfully and anchored our ship at the conjugal bliss border on the fourth year of courtship.